desires and pleasurable feelings in a relationship that he is not truly able to seek the woman’s good for her own sake. This is why the Pope emphasizes that “eros needs to be disciplined and purified if it is to provide not just fleeting pleasure, but a certain foretaste … of that beatitude for which our whole being yearns” (no. 4). Here we come to the heart of Pope Benedict’s teaching on human love. He tells us that eros must be healed if it is to mature and develop into
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